MARY
(LEDDY) ABAIR BURLINGTON On Tuesday,
August 26, 2008, Mary Elizabeth
(Leddy) Abair passed away at the age of 89, with her loved ones close by. Her love for
them and her unfailing charm and wit made her departure seem very natural even though we
all loved her so dearly. She was a special lady and will be greatly missed by all those
who knew her. Mary Elizabeth was born in Burlington, on April 4, 1919, to George Albert Bert Leddy and
Helen Nellie (Collins) Leddy. She attended Mount St. Mary's Academy in Burlington. As a child, she spent afternoons at her
father's ice cream parlor and, as a teenager, she spent summers camping with friends on Mallets Bay. The close friendships she formed during those
years remained and flourished throughout her life. After graduating from high school, she
attended Burlington Business College and worked at Abernathy's Department Store. In
1935, she met Leo Abair and after seven years of courtship they were married on April 13, 1942, at Christ the King Church in Burlington by Leo's brother Reverend Edward Hebert. Mary
and Leo raised their family of nine children at homes at Fort Ethan Allen and Charlotte Street in Burlington where all friends and neighbors felt welcomed.
During those years she found time to serve as Grand Regent of the Catholic Daughters, play
bridge regularly, and travel with her lady friends to New York City and Maine.
The family moved to Broadlake Road in Colchester in 1973 and established a winter home in Tarpon Springs, Fla., in 1982. Mary and Leo generously hosted many
events at both locations for family members and friends. She especially enjoyed following
the careers of her talented family, attending musical events up until a week ago. Mary is
predeceased by her parents, Bert and Nelly Leddy; and her dear cousins, Jackie Perrault
Howley and Gertude Toales Quinn, as well as many other relations and in-laws. Mary leaves
her devoted husband of 66 years, Leo R. Abair; and her children, Alan Abair and his wife
Lucy, John Abair and his wife Betty, Robert Abair and his wife Betty, Marilee and her
husband William Cain, Chris Abair, Carol Abair and her husband Joseph Ketcham, David
Abair, Mark Abair and his wife Sam, and Philip Abair and his wife Julie. She also leaves
fifteen adoring grandchildren: Brian Abair and his wife Michelle, Molly Abair and her
husband Dan Marchessault, Michael Abair and his wife Lisa, Heidi Randall and her husband
Ben, Lee Abair, David Cain and his wife Sandra O'Flaherty, Annie Cain and her fiancé
Chris Kenny, Carrie Abair, Casey Abair, Matthew Ketcham, Ben Abair his wife Lisa, Ashlee
Abair, Mark Abair Jr. and his wife Katherine, John Abair, and Heather Abair. She will also
be missed by her seven great-grandchildren, Emily, Camden, Owen, Lucas, Michaela, Dylan, Lydia, and Kalvin, and her close friends Jane Allen,
Jan Barrett, Elizabeth Sheehey, Viola Bove, and the Quinn and Howley families. Mary
enjoyed a long and happy life, spending her time doing the things that she loved to do.
She will mostly be remembered for her beautiful smile, her keen sense of humor, her
ability to connect with people, and for the love she bestowed upon her family. Visiting
hours will be on Friday, August 29, from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the LaVigne Funeral Home, 132 Main Street, Winooski. A Mass of Christian Burial will be
celebrated on Saturday, August 30, at 11:30 a.m. at Holy Cross Catholic Church in Colchester. Interment will follow at Resurrection Park Cemetery in South Burlington. In lieu of flowers, you may send donations to
the Visiting Nurses Association, 1110
Prim Road, Colchester VT 05446. E-mail condolences may be sent to
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